Seeking Happiness and Joy

One of my favorite scriptures in the Book of Mormon is Alma 62: 41 .  “But behold, because of the exceedingly great length of the war between the Nephites and the Lamanites many had become hardened, because of the exceedingly great length of the war; and many were softened because of their afflictions, insomuch that they did humble themselves before God, even in the depth of humility.”  This scripture teaches me that we can’t always control what we encounter, such as the adversities we face, but we can control how we respond to these things.  Elder Dallin H. Oaks said, “Our responses inevitably shape our souls and ultimately determine our status in eternity.  Because opposition is divinely decreed for the purpose of helping us to grow, we have the assurance of God that in the long view of eternity it will not be allowed to overcome us if we persevere in faith.  We will prevail.  Like the mortal life of which they are a part, adversities are temporary.  What is permanent

I was in the depths of despair only minutes ago.  I was experiencing feelings of defeat and an attitude of utmost frustration. And then it hit me. I know everything I need to do to get through this, because I attended a church meeting earlier this evening. During tonight's Church Education System Broadcast for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints , Elder D. Todd Chistofferson spoke of getting through challenging times.  During the fireside, my mind raced as I thought of so many things going on in my life right now.  Decisions I needed to make.  Confrontations that are going to occur.  Opportunities for humility that I should take otherwise I'll face damage to myself if I maintain my pride.  I didn't realize I heard very much of his talk. Until it hit me. Many of his words were brought to my remembrance and his meaning became very clear. I am to face these trials one day at a time . I can do that.  I can tackle this one piece at a time.  I